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Dating crisis: are men afraid of direct women?

Last Update : August 16, 2019 by Aya

Old-fashion dating stereotypes are starting to disappear: amazing news!

If you don’t know what kind of dating stereotypes we’re talking about

Check out the guide:  Are you making these mistakes? Learn how to break dating stereotypes!

In a previous article, we already saw how the Tinder generation is destroying love. Love as we knew it at least. But the Tinder generation has also shown us an interesting surprise: men seem to be afraid of direct women.

What do you think? 

Are men afraid of direct women: A new approach to feminine seduction

In this new dating arena, women are not waiting anymore to be seen by a man.

Let’s be honest, why should they?
The thing is that more and more woman are more confident and direct nowadays to just voice and act on what they like. They notice men too and if they’re interested, they go for it.

Everything sounds great, doesn’t it?

The problem is that some men are not used to that, and they seem to run away from situations in which they do not feel they’re under control at all.

After all, if the dating game as always based the rules on men taking the first steps and managing romance, maybe when all of that changes, some men do not know how to flirt anymore?

Of course, friends, we’re not generalizing. It is just a constatation of many Tinder users and single women’s complaints.

The dating crisis: how to adapt to new rules

First of all, the beauty of breaking dating stereotypes is that you get to realize that there are no proper rules when it comes to dating (asides of the rules that govern our society of course and respect, honesty and caring).

What we are saying is that there isn’t a PROPER way to love, nor to date not to seduce. There are lots of different ways, and the most important thing to remember is that there’s nothing sexier than when someone approaches you, not because it is expected, but because they’re genuinely interested in you. Wouldn’t you agree?

We shouldn’t see anymore dating as a societal thing reigned by female and male role. Let’s free romance and love!

The really important thing is to find a match and to make the most of it. If it’s the woman or the man that takes the first step, it doesn’t change anything.

Masculinity and feminity are not in crisis. On the contrary, masculinity and feminity are finally starting to rediscover each other.

So, let’s embrace honesty and being direct. Let’s embrace respect and flirting. Let’s embrace the reinvention of dating.

Are you ready to take the first step? START DATING!

Read more: is masculinity really in crisis when it comes to dating?